Time For Change - 7 Ways of Making Change in Your Life
Albert Einstein said, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
You must be tired of doing the same thing everyday like I am.
Going for a job, doing work whole day, getting tired, come back home and sleep or going to college, doing whole shit of study, come back, have dinner and sleep whole night and next day the same. Is this the way you want to spend the rest of your life? Doing nothing but waiting for the next day to follow the same schedule? Doing the things that you are not even interested or you want to make a change for a better life where you can do more productive things and also you can be happy everyday?
1. You need a proper environment:
As the flower blooms better in the sunlight so we can find our strengths only in the proper environment. The first thing we need to do is find a proper environment so that there will be no much distractions and we can work effectively. As we know, most of us don't feel comfort where we are. So, if we can't change the site the we should change the sight. Create a proper environment instead of finding it. Working on clean attractive place can have tremendous effects on your daily life and also on your relationships. Even the sun doesn't shine in your workplace, you need to make efforts to have a relaxing, comfort and quiet atmosphere.
2. Believe on yourself:
Today, I was having some good talk with my close friend and we decided to go at the top of the roof because that is the best place for sunbathing during winter but there was no elevator. So we had to climb by our own. He first tried and failed and he said, "You better don't try, it can't be done." I said, "Why"? He said, "Because I tried and couldn't succeed." I said, "What that means? You couldn't means I can't too?" Then I bet him for a dinner on Thakali hotel and challenged him even I didn't know I could do that. When I started climbing, I felt really difficult but I gave my best and finally I succeeded. And he surprised and felt like ashamed and he realized that he should have encouraged me instead of telling that I couldn't do that.
I learnt that the world is going to tell you, that you can't do this and do that because may be they couldn't. They might have tried and failed or they think you may get injured/hurt. But remember, you still don't have a idea what you are capable of. You will never know until you try, until you give your best. So, if you want to do something that you have never done before, the first thing you must do is believe on yourself. Then just do it and try again if you fail until you succeed or until you show the world what you can do.
3. Expand your horizons and try new things:
It is really difficult to find perfect time to learn new things when you have thousands of other things going on in your life. Priorities must be there to spend the day effectively. Here are few tips we can follow in our daily life:
1. Spend time with your own people:
You don't need to have a full hour, you just need a phone call for few minutes or a time like a tea break to have rare cherished conversations with your family members or relatives that you haven't seen for a long time. You might get surprised how funny and insightful some of your own people have become without your noticing.
2. Being creative and do something that you've never done before:
Utilize your free time to dive into creative pursuit of your choice.
Try painting if you like, go for meditation or gim perhaps. Try such artistic endeavours such as playing music or decorating your room. if you love writing then write few articles of your interest. Try new food, go for sport or go to new areas of wilderness. Do something that you always wanted to do but you never be able to do.
3. Write thank you notes:
4. Help others or volunteer on some great works
5. Meet as much people as you can and talk
6. Read a book in a week
7. Make schedule for future plans/goals.
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Time For Change
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