Learn Why to Ignore the Word - Ugly
Have you ever scolded by your parents or teachers or boss? Have you ever cheated by your friend even by the good one? Have you ever felt frustrated when something didn't happened according to your wish? Have your ever lost confidence or self-esteem when you failed again and again to achieve your goal?
Well I am not a perfectionist here to tell you the exact solution of all these problems but I can share my experiences which I faced in my life and I will try to deliver the concept of getting personal excellence in these stuffs so that next time when you face any obstacle of this type in your life, it will be more easy for you to stand up and fight for your dream.
The word
Ugly is a common word these days. Some people show anger and tell the opponent, "Ugly". Some use this word just to make fun of someone. Some say it because they want to make others below them. Some people spell it even they don't know the exact meaning of it. (I wonder if they have heard the words like beautiful, sweet, attractive, handsome, good-looking, pleasing, alluring and nice.)
In all cases we see the main problem is not in the person for whom it (the word - Ugly) is told. The problem is in the person who is spelling it. When somebody is telling you ugly while he/she is in anger, it shows his frustrations and shows that he is very weak to control his emotions. When someone is trying to make fun of you by spelling this word, then it shows he/she doesn't think before doing anything. Some people spell it to make you below them, then you can see there is a smell of jealousy. It means you are already above them.
So why to feel bad when somebody is telling you that you are ugly? Ugly is the word totally associated with the person who spell it, not with you. Just remember words are very powerful. Words can build relationships but it can also break them in seconds. Words can make somebody happy words can be the reason of somebody's tears. Words can motivate and can show the path of success while words can be the reason of somebody's failure. Words can save lives but also words can be the reason of somebody's death.
Please think before you speak because words are the only things that matters to all of us.
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